Most people complain because they are looking to be rescued in some way. Wanting to be rescued indicates you are seeing yourself as a victim. Therefore, complaining perpetuates victim consciousness and the outmoded roles of victim/rescuer.

Dear Ones, you always have the option to take the reins and create an experience that is much more in line with what you want, but you simply cannot do that while you are busy giving your power away.

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Dear Ones, enabling others in behaviours that do not honour them, or others, is participating in keeping someone stuck. We are not trying to say you are responsible for another’s growth or behaviour. What we are saying is that having healthy boundaries is loving both for you, and for everyone else. When you allow someone else’s poor behaviour to control how things unfold, you are guaranteed to have a chaotic result because it is giving the person who is least qualified to lead all the power. Do you see? As more and more people insist upon being treated with the love and honour they deserve, the people who are stuck in old behaviours will need to find new ways of being. It is a system that supports everyone to grow and thrive in ways that honour each individual, as well as the whole. ~Archangel Gabriel

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Many enlightening human beings have led rather solitary existences as part of their awakening process. There was a need to withdraw in order to create the environment necessary for growth, energetic adjustment and healing. Retreating was creating the safe space required to evolve beyond the old wounds and stories. Now those same people have reached a time where they are now able to emerge again, in a far more authentic way, healed and balanced to the point where they would not accept or draw behaviour that is unloving or abusive.

Do you see? Your own healing and balance needed to be nurtured first before you could go forth and embody that state of actuation beyond your own environment. This is the natural progression of your efforts, Dear Ones. As the first wave steps back out again, holding completely different energies than when they began, the second wave will start their withdrawal process, and so it goes. Some humans are in a stage of cocooning, while others are in a stage of emergence. It is the wonderful unfolding of self discovery, in different phases, that is part of the amazing shift you are all part of. ~Archangel Gabriel

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Dear Ones, flow is absolutely essential to your spiritual growth and wellness. It is the way your soul navigates its way to your next great experience and adventure. If you are around people who are unsafe for you, in that their behaviour is unpredictable, abusive, unsupportive, neglectful, dismissive, controlling or in any way unsupportive or unloving, you will naturally become guarded and self protecting, which will absolutely knock you out of flow. Love yourselves enough to create an environment that is safe, nurturing and supportive in order to expand, connect, and BE in the way your soul craves. Your life will change in the most wondrous ways when you can enter into the flow and stay in it consistently. ~Archangel Gabriel
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