So many people live their lives in an attempt to please others. They don’t rock the boat, they put everyone else’s wishes above their own, and do everything they can to avoid upsetting others. They try to ensure other people’s happiness through their actions. While we know this comes from a place that seeks love and acceptance, it is doomed to fail. Let us tell you why.

The idea that you can make another person happy is completely faulty. You may temporarily please another, but if they are dependant upon you for their emotional state, they will never find happiness because happiness cannot be found from an external. Happiness must come from within. Because they are looking to an external to make them whole, and that will never, ever work, they will come to resent you for not being able to make them happy. You will find you will have to perform greater and greater feats to try to please them, which will only lead to your own exhaustion and resentment, and ultimate disappointment.

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Many of you put incredible pressure on yourselves with your enlightenment process. You seem to think you must do things perfectly in order to avoid the displeasure of your guides and helpers. Dear Ones, please know you can never displease us! When you think that way, you are trying to apply a conditional love model to us. The idea of conditional love from Source, of an angry, judging universe is simply not valid. There is nothing you could do, ever, that would result in anything but our deep and abiding unconditional love.

Know that we are here to love you and support you in whatever experiences you wish to have! It is through experience that you grow and evolve. Your life expression is not meant for you to watch from the sidelines. Being in the body, being on your planet is for the sole (soul) purpose of experience and self definition. So play! Try things out! Have the courage to live, truly live, knowing there is nothing you could ever do to disappoint us or fall out of our favour. You are always and completely loved beyond measure. ~Archangel Gabriel

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My dearly beloved brothers and sisters.

Now is the time to rejoice. All good things, promised to you are coming. Be in Love, centered in your hearts. The news that will be flooding your world will amaze you. As this happens, be the teachers to your neighbors, family and friends. Nobody is a stranger. All life is connected through the source of all that is. Use the I AM presence and the violet flame to radiate your light.

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On this day, when your thoughts turn to love, many people who have yet to find a love relationship that honours them, may be tempted to feel despair, wondering if they will ever meet that perfect partner. If you are looking for an external to make you whole, or focusing upon lack, this day may seem cruel, and you may feel lonely and sad.

Dear Ones, one of the questions we get asked most often is, “When will I find unconditional love?” The answer to that question, always, is when you can love yourself unconditionally. Do you love yourself? Do you make choices that honour yourself? Do you hold the traits you seek? Are you open to love, or are you guarded, waiting for some magical love to show up and prove itself to you? Waiting for such an eventuality will never prove fruitful, as you can never draw to you what you do not hold.

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